Overcoming Soul Ties

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Have you felt as though you keep getting drawn back into the wrong things? Are you being manipulated or controlled by someone? Is there a relationship you just can’t get over? You may be dealing with an unhealthy soul tie. A soul tie is when two people join together physically, emotionally, through a vow or an item and their souls are knit together to become one flesh or tied together for a purpose.

Many authors of this subject agree that a soul tie in the correct form brings benefits to your life, like a healthy marriage and successful business endeavors. But when soul ties are unhealthy, it will plummet you in a downward spiral toward obsessive behavior. This obsession retards the successful advancement of your life, career, relationships and even your prosperity. Continuing with this type of obsession then morphs into thinking repetitively about things that you can’t change, should not partake in or even contemplate doing. When this obsession is uncovered, you will find complete bondage.

This bondage is more than a feeling or the inability to move forward, it is the constant reminder, even subconsciously, to do something negative. You constantly rehearse an episode, daydream or become angry at the screenplay in your mind. Why? Because the soul tie becomes a knot you cannot loosen. Thoughts become cyclical as you replay the circumstance or desire like a merry-go-round that you can’t jump off. This cyclical behavior is a result of soul ties. Soul ties stagnate your creativity and binds your progression. To break this soul tie, you must bring the internal dialogue under subjection of the authority of your destiny. You must stay in the place of who you are becoming, not what you have encountered.

As Proverbs 21:23 tells us, “Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles.” Another version states, “Watch your words and hold your tongue; you’ll save yourself a lot of grief.” The tongue has the ability to bring the soul great troubles and bondage.

Want to overcome that soul tie? Forgive yourself and the offender, renounce it and break it. You must break it to destroy it so it cannot form again. If you want freedom from soul ties, stop waiting to see if things will work out. Stop hesitating because you want to see what the next step turns into. Stop talking yourself out of God’s will for your life. If you want freedom from the tangled mess you are in, make that move. The walk by faith and not by sight! Remember, old ways won’t open new doors; it’s time to be loosed and free.

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